Bernard Adam Stoltz, Psy.D.
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Parkhurst Associates
1755 S Street, NW
Washington DC
(202) 234-7738 ext. 8
Is therapy, psychotherapy or counseling for you?

To some, there is a stigma that therapy is an endeavor only for people with severe
mental illness.  However, psychologists can be helpful to all kinds of people who
have come across all kinds of roadblocks in life.  Therapy often helps us to
understand these roadblocks, capitalize on our strengths, and improve our
shortcomings.  Therapy helps to make all of life’s endeavors more meaningful, so
that we can relate to other people, our work, and our free time with confidence and
satisfaction.  When we are unable to do this, life can become dull at best, and
emotionally painful at worst.

Therapy can help with a variety of issues that many people contend with:

Self-esteem
Social effectiveness
Building and maintaining relationships
Loss of a loved one
Divorce
Major life transitions
GLBT concerns
Career development
Career transitions
Scholastic difficulties
Coping with legal difficulties

Life often presents us with great challenges and sometimes therapy can be the
critical step that keeps us from “going crazy.”

Therapy and Mental Illness

Therapy can be crucial in treating mental illness and symptoms of mental illness.  
I have worked in the mental health field in the Washington DC metropolitan area
for 10 years.  During this time, I have helped people suffering from the following
symptoms and disorders:

Depression
Anxiety
Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Phobias

Addictions

Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD, ADD)
Bipolar Disorder
Psychotic and thought disorders
Personality Disorders
Eating Disorders
What is the difference between therapy,
psychotherapy and counseling?

Therapy is a term that is often used
interchangeably with psychotherapy and
counseling.  Therapy does not refer to a process
different from psychotherapy or counseling, but
rather it is a general term that can be used for
both.  Although this is sometimes confusing, it is
also reflective of the many shared elements of
psychotherapy and counseling.  Both
psychotherapy and counseling assist clients in
achieving major life goals and gathering
understanding of our selves.  Both help clients
address barriers to achieving those goals.  Both
involve meeting on a regular basis, usually weekly,
with a professional with a graduate degree in
psychology or social work.

Counseling tends to be goal focused.  For
example, career counseling assists clients with the
goal of making a career transition, or obtaining
and maintaining a job.  Couples counseling assists
a couple in generating positive communication.  
In life we often talk about things we would like to
accomplish, yet we struggle with actually making
these things happen.  Counseling involves a
systematic assessment of what keeps us from
reaching our goals so that we can successfully
address these barriers.  Individual insight is gained
in the service of achieving goals set out for
counseling.  

Psychotherapy tends to be focused on the
individual.  Although we all have goals in life,
sometimes it takes a deeper understanding of our
selves in order to achieve what we want.  
Sometimes we need to seek a larger meaning in
life in order for the other pieces to fall into place.  
In psychotherapy we seek to understand our desires
and struggles as they relate to our essential sense
of self.  Psychotherapy helps us to build
meaningful ways of relating to others and the
world at large.  

That being said, there are times when counseling
may entail the exploration and development of
the self.  There are also times when psychotherapy
may become goal focused.  Ultimately the
content of each session is determined by the
needs of each individual at that specific moment.